Today is Valentines Day.  Love is in the air, cupid is flying around, and chocolate isn't hard to find.  I have spent 17 years with my sweetheart and each Valentine's Day is a great reminder that I am blessed.  I love my husband more today than all of the previous years combined.  He is my best friend.  He is hilarious.  And he's the best dad in town.  But, after so long of being in love, reality smacks you in the face and a dozen roses can't fix it.  Somewhere along the way, the dust settles and the...